One of the reasons that adult toy parties have blossomed in popularity lately is that they can be arranged around a limitless number of different themes. No two adult toy parties need to be alike – and they definitely shouldn’t be! After all, a huge part of the allure of any adult toy party is experiencing new types of fun. If you’ve been thinking about hosting these ultra-fun parties, you should arm yourself with plenty of theme ideas; a few of the best ones are outlined below.
Pin the Macho on the Man – A Sure Hit for a Girls’ Night In
Girls’ nights in are basically adult toy parties “for the fun of it.” In other words, they don’t revolve around any particular milestone or event. For that reason, they can be a lot more flexible in terms of themes. Anything goes at a girls’ night in, and Pin the Macho on the Man is a very popular choice when it comes to games. If you’ve ever played Pin the Tail on the Donkey, then you already know the gist about how this game goes. Instead of a tail, though, something a little naughtier is used! Women have a blast participating in this game, and it makes a great centerpiece for any girls’ night in.
Seat Swap – A Risque Way to Have Fun on a Couples Night
Couples’ nights are popular themes, especially for those who prefer to enjoy adult toy parties with their significant others. The games at these parties need to be designed to include everyone in the fun, though, so they may be a little trickier to plan. Seat swap is one tried-and-true game that works well with this theme. Along the way, different women end up on different men’s laps – and everyone has a really great time!
Adult Pass-the-Parcel – Kicking a Naughty Santa Party Up a Notch
During the holidays, there are many fun themes available for adult toy parties. You should definitely consider throwing a naughty Santa party, since they are in the spirit of the season – and a whole lot of fun! One first-rate game that you should consider for the event is adult pass-the-parcel. Instead of passing along an innocent toy or two, however, participants pass along adult toys and other sexy things. You won’t believe the hilarity that ensues during this fun game!
Come Up with Your Own Theme
You could always come up with your own theme, too. Sometimes, you can incorporate elements from several different themes and create something entirely new. Fun games to consider for a custom party include Truth or Dare and Spin the Sexy Bottle. You don’t need to have a special reason to throw an adult toy party, and the sky really is the limit when it comes to themes!
It can be tough to start a new business. Decisions, decisions. One such decision is, do you structure your new business on your own, or do you reach out and research companies that supply all the marketing material and products for you. In the Adult Toy Party business (home party category), there are about a dozen companies you can choose from to be your base of operations. After 4 months of extensive research, about a half a dozen come up worthy of being placed on the consideration list. Only 1 of those companies comes out on top.
This article will not extend itself to naming names. It’s purpose is not to be malicious or to bad mouth other companies, that’s just poor business in itself. If you are with a company that practices what I call “Run from It” tactics, you already know that. If you are searching for an adult toy party business company to join – this article should give you a few questions to ask. Their answers will let you know they were in the running.
One of the first things you can do before even making the call is to go to Google and type in [Company Name] Complaints. One of the adult toy party companies that comes up on practically all the search pages for “Adult Toy Parties” (because they have been in business a long time, and spend a lot of money in marketing), came up with 205,000 results from this complaints search. With that – I really don’t have to go any further in my investigation. Not A Chance!
Even with extensive research, you can end up choosing the wrong company for you. We did, but realized the mistake quickly (within a month), got out, and started over. The GOOD that came out of our wrong choice was more questions to ask to determine the right choice.
You Know It’s A Bad Choice When (“Run From It!”)…
Monthly Sales Quotas
This is one in a series of requirements that lets me know that the company is self-serving. They are in it to make money for themselves and they could give a rats a$$ about whether or not you succeed. How many of us are in this to convert to full time? Sure, it’s always a dream, but in reality we are all just trying to supplement our income, or our spouse’s income. This month the kids may have soccer tournaments every weekend, next month we may be free to do parties all month – that’s what a home business is supposed to afford you – flexibility to make how much, or how little is within your schedule and desire. Don’t rope me into what YOU think I should be doing.
No, You Can NOT Construct Your Own Website.
Self-serving. The bulk of representative websites (the website they give you to market for your business) have corporate information all over it, giving your potential customers multiple avenues to contact the company directly. And, as a professional and multiple award winning web designer I think I have the authority to comment, the bulk of representative website are just plain bad – gaudy – error glittered, and un-optimized. Now, most of the individuals looking into the Adult Toy Party Home Business are NOT web designers – granted, but give them the option. Even a basic hosted Word Press template can become FAR more optimized than the representative sites.
Your company website and marketing material are splattered with corporate information.
Self-serving, self-serving, self-serving. Seriously, why would I want to hand out a bunch of catalogs that I paid for that have, on each page, the corporate toll free number and corporate website address? Why do I want to direct people to my website if the contact form goes to some corporate department where I then have to wait for them to sift through and get to it and forward it to me, I hope. I’ve heard the explanation that they are protecting themselves. They are making sure that if you decide to get out of the business, the material that you put out there still has a working contact tool. I say bull. My customers aren’t stupid and if they want to contact corporate they can certainly figure out how to do that without it being splattered all over MY BUSINESS marketing material.
Oh no, THAT product is only 30% profit
This was one of the straws that broke the back with the 1st company we chose. We bought in during a special which gave us 60% profit for 90 days. I guess we should have known that 60% was just too good to be true (your industry standard is 40%), but it was a special, and only for 90 days so we figured – nice little promotion. And from the outside, everything else looked good. Well, once in and placing orders we get the story that (about 70% of what we needed to order) some of the products were only 30% profit. That’s just deceitful, and with deceit that blatant, we were not going to take a chance on giving them any more of our efforts.
You can only market our parties to ladies
Why do so many of these companies feel that it is wrong (or even against the law) to promote romance among couples? (I checked. It’s not illegal). In Why Americans Divorce I read that “22 percent of men cited sex as the reason for the divorce”. In Sex Is Biggest Cause of Divorce I learned that a UK law firm reports “sex was a factor in 43 per cent of divorce cases”. Think about it. Wouldn’t it be cool if we, as romance consultants could be a savior in as little as .01% of that? If you saved ONE marriage, would that not be cool? And how about us as consultants? Don’t you think it might bring a couple or two closer together to run a romance business together?
You only make commission of 1 (or 2) levels of your team, and only if YOU maintain a certain monthly income.
OK, I get the rule of having to maintain a certain monthly income in order to reap the benefits of your team, although it would be nice (and potentially lucrative to the parent company) to have a business or 10 who simply excel in helping their team succeed. Business coaching is a pretty big field, you know? But regardless, I get that part – but, why should I be limited to just 1 or 2 levels of my team? I want to hear at least 4 or 5, and the company we settled in with does it Unlimited. Now THAT’S what I’M talking about!
Your hostess rewards program comes out of YOUR pocket – and worse still, the company marketing material designates what the hostess rewards program is.
So you (the parent company) are going to tell me what I have to give to a hostess for having a party for me, but I have to pay for it? Not cool. If I have to pay for it, then I should be able to decide what those incentives are. And in a perfect world YOU (the parent company) should be paying for it. You are, after all, reaping the bulk of the rewards.
You can only sell our products. No one else’s. Even if it is not in direct competition.
Just not cool. Why should I not be able to supplement my business further by offering a line of jewelry, or kitchen items, or plastics for that matter. Why Not? And really, if you don’t sell the liberator wedge, and I can get it wholesale, and it’s a seller, why should I be NOT allowed to sell it? If you don’t want us to sell what sells from someone else, than offer it yourself – otherwise, let us stock our business!
Those are a few of the items you should look out for that should cause you to continue your search, should the company you are looking at practice these tactics.
Some items that you do want your company to offer are:
Countless ways to earn. Look for at least 40% across the board on the main product line
Internet sales. Take a CLOSE look at the representative site that is offered. Take a look at it in ALL browsers. Take yourself all the way through a purchase (all the way to the point where you click accept to make the buy – stop there if you don’t want the item). Remember, the look and feel, the errors, the problems, all of this is going to reflect on YOUR business.
Customer promotions. There should be some incentives (that do NOT come out of your pocket) to help your customers want to buy.
Team building commission. You should be incentivized, and compensated for building and training your team.
Residual income. How is going the company going to help keep the income coming.
Bonuses. Look for car bonuses, house bonuses, travel bonuses, etc.
COMPANY PAID hostess rewards program. You should not be out of pocket in rewarding your hostess to through you a party.
It’s difficult enough to run your own business without being held down by restrictions, bad press, and uncooperative or no support. Check out your possible parent company thoroughly, and remember – if they aren’t living up to your standards or not producing what you believe you deserve, jump ship – there are other companies that will.
One reason that many women are reticent to attend adult parties is because they think there’s no way they’d be interested in the items that are offered at one. Everyone’s sexual preferences vary by a considerable degree; what one person considers outrageous, another won’t even bat an eyelash at. That being said, it should be noted that adult toy parties offer a huge range of items – and there is bound to be something there that will positively thrill you.
Amp Up The Adventure in Your Love Life
If the idea of bringing home a sex toy just doesn’t sit all that well with you, you still shouldn’t rule out attending an adult toy party. There are many different party ideas for adults, and most of these parties feature more conventional items as well. Above all, you are bound to discover that you aren’t as embarrassed as you thought you’d be – especially once you see the enormous benefits that go along with introducing such items into your relationship.
Get Creative with Body Paint
Women who are reluctant to purchase actual sex toys often find body paint to be a pleasant alternative. Edible body paints come in a wide array of delicious flavours; when used in the bedroom, a lot of extra fun can be had. Chocolate body paint, for instance, is a delicious way to explore your partner’s body in a whole new way. You can use it however you want to, of course, which ensures that you won’t feel awkward.
Don Some Costume Lingerie
Costume lingerie is another very popular item for women who aren’t keen on buying outright sex toys at adult toy parties. Dressing up for your partner is a fun way to jazz things up, and there are generally many different costumes to choose from. When you look sexy, you feel sexy as well; feeling sexy helps you get in the mood – and is sure to thrill your partner, too! It’s amazing what one simple outfit can do in terms of excitement in a relationship, so be sure to keep an open mind.
Just Try It!
The most important thing to do when considering whether or not to attend an adult toy party is to push all of your preconceived notions to the side. Until you’ve been to one, there’s no way to tell whether or not you will enjoy such an event. If you’re like the vast majority of women, however, you are bound to have a wonderful time. Instead of feeling awkward and embarrassed, you’ll get right into the spirit of things. Rather than bringing home something that you’re nervous about using, you’ll bring back something fun that you and your partner will have a blast experimenting with. Adult toy parties – and the items they offer – are definitely win-win situations.
They’re calling it “Toy Story for Adults”, and it’s easy to see why. Today Adult toys, lingerie and other adult products are holding their own as major players on the market. This growing popularity has led an increasing percentage of the population to celebrate the biggest moments in their lives with an adult toy part.
Discover new ways to spice up your love life
What is an adult toy party? The name is usually a pretty good tip off for most people. It’s a chance for adults to get together and “toy shop”, but these aren’t Cabbage Patch dolls or Power Rangers-although “Woody” might be an appropriate addition to the evening! These parties feature toys and games that most parents would never dream of letting their little girls play with, featuring today’s hottest line-up of adult toys and accessories.
More importantly, it gives women of all ages the opportunity to get together and discuss not only their personal lives, but also the ways they’d like to improve their relationships. Imagine the possibilities! Most toy parties are privately hosted, and the ten to twelve women who usually get together to celebrate these events are often close friends. That means that there can be a no-holds barred, completely straightforward conversation on relationships.
Host your own adult party and receive free samples
If you’re looking for a way to jazz up your personal relationships, or even just to make your man’s eyes pop out of his head a little faster when you walk in the room, an adult toy party is the way to do it. Not only do you often walk away with free samples (especially if you happen to be the host), you also have first dibs on some of the hottest adult toys on the market-complete with demos.
The demos ensure that not only do you spend the night looking at amazing adult toys, you also get to learn how to use them-and how to get your man worked up enough that you’re going to be reaping the benefits for months afterward. Most of these parties claim that they’ll teach you tricks and techniques you’ve never heard of, and unless you happen to have memorized the Kama Sutra they’re probably right. When you walk away from an adult party you’ll be leaving with the knowledge that with a little less talk and a lot more action you can have your man on his knees in no time.
An adult party is an excellent way to breathe new life into your personal relationships, connect with your girlfriends and step out of your shell to discover everything that the world has to offer.